The message that could have been communicated to the children from the adult was a mixed message. The children were sent the message to be polite to one another but the body language and facial expressions of the fathers said differently.
As an educator, I would have responded to the children and used this opportunity as teachable moment. I would have stayed calm and explored the children's feelings about this situation in a positive way. Also, I would use child appropriate language when talking with the children (Derman-Sparks & Olsen Edwards, 2010).
References
Derman-Sparks, L., & Olsen Edwards, J. (2010). Anti-bias education for young children and ourselves. Washington, DC: NAEYC
Hi Crystal,
ReplyDeleteSounds like the three year olds only experience with the Hispanic race was through the televission show "Dora". This child would benefit from other visuals and real life experiences to fully understand that not all Hispanic girls are named Dora.
Luci
Crystal,
ReplyDeleteChildren's comments definitely reveal their frame of reference. We have a teacher with long, very curly hair named Mrs. Simpson. One day a class of 4 year olds were looking through magazine pictures for a collage. One of the children saw a shampoo ad with a woman with long curly hair and exclaimed "Look, it's Mrs. Simpson!".