There are multiple strategies that could be used to resolve conflict. Two strategies that I feel would be most effective for me to resolve conflict effectively are The Third Side (n.d) and Conflict Resolution Network (n.d.). The Third Side provides a technique to help you see the larger perspective. I would use the Third Side because it allows me to seek understanding of both perspectives, encourages a process of cooperative negotiation, and supports a solution that meets the needs of both individuals and the community. I would use the Conflict Resolution Network's 12 skills to resolve conflict because it offers many strategies to use. Skill 3 would be the best strategy for me to have used last week when I had a conflict with my boyfriend. This strategy reminds you not to defend yourself, deal with the speakers emotions, and acknowledge their side. I feel that using this strategy will foster our relationship.
Resources
Conflict Resolution Network. (n.d.) CR kit. Retrieved on February 8, 2013, from: http://www.crnhq.org/pages.php?ID=12#skill_3
The Third Side. (n.d.) The third side. Retrieved on February 8, 2013, from:
http://www.thirdside.org/thirdside.cfm
Hi Crystal,
ReplyDeleteThe third side is great it does get you to see the bigger picture. I like it.
I love that third side resolution. I actually use this with me husband. He sometimes think that he knows everything so I calmly remain quiet not explianing to him that he's in the wrong.
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